You may have noticed that Halloween came and went and I didn't post a single picture. Because I didn't take a single picture. And everybody was a-okay with that. We didn't carve any pumpkins either. Heck, we didn't even go to the pumpkin patch this year.
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Pumpkin Patch Circa 2009
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C dressed up as a Dalek from Dr. Who and went trick-or-treating with his dad. T went to a Halloween party at a friend's house, and E hung out at home and helped me pass out candy. And the truth is, I think we all kind of enjoyed our new, laid back Halloween. To be honest, I've never been a fan of carving pumpkins anyway.
And with Thanksgiving and Christmas right around the corner, I thought I'd share a few other holiday traditions I've let go. I haven't let all of our traditions go, of course, but I've also learned that the tradition of just spending time together is the best tradition of all.
1. I stopped sending Christmas cards, letters, family photos, etc. I know. GASP! How could I?
First of all, every photo that gets taken and important event that occurs gets recorded right here on this blog, where everyone I know can see it. And then there's Facebook, just in case I forget to share something here. Which means that there isn't a single thing I could tell you in a holiday letter that you haven't heard about already. Not to mention the cost of cards, family photos, stamps, etc. Sending Christmas cards has to be one of the most expensive holiday traditions known to man! Now I make a short Christmas video with highlights from our year, then email it to friends and share it on Facebook.
I know what you're thinking--that's so impersonal! But really, it's no less personal than sending the exact same letter to everyone you know. And you know what? Everyone loves our annual Christmas video. I spend about $30 a year for the service from
animoto.com (way less than the cost of cards, paper, stamps and photos) and spend an hour at most making the video.
2. I stopped making holiday treats for everyone in the neighborhood. I used to make dozens of holiday cookies for my family, plus dozens more to pass out to all the neighbors. It was exhausting. And I always felt like I was rationing holiday goodies so there would be enough to go around. Of course, you are more than welcome to bring holiday treats to me!
3. I stopped making homemade pie crust. And sometimes I don't even make the pie! Yes, I have a food blog and I just said that. Who came up with the ideas that pies should be a traditional holiday dessert anyway? They've got to be one of the most stressful, time consuming desserts to make (especially if you want a pie with a top and bottom crust), and people are so judgmental about pie crust. Which is funny, because I've found that most people can't tell the difference between store-bought and homemade crust. My family could care less, and would much rather I spent pie crust making time watching Christmas Vacation with them.
This is my family's favorite pie.
Blackberry Sour Cream Pie. Notice the tell-tale flimsy aluminum pie plate--a sure sign of a pre-made, frozen pie crust. It's also worth noting that besides a store-bought crust, this pie has very few ingredients. Sometimes, keeping it simple is the way to go.
Also, Marie Callender makes some pretty darn good frozen pies. And you can buy a fabulous Cheesecake Factory Cheesecake at Costco and everyone will love it!
Lest you think I'm a complete Grinch, here are a few holiday traditions we'll be hanging on to. I hope they'll matter more to my kids in the long run than whether it was me or Marie who made their holiday dessert.
- Writing down what we're grateful for each day in November and hanging it on the fireplace mantle to be read on Thanksgiving day.
- The Twelve Days of Christmas, in which we choose a friend or neighbor to secretly surprise with 12 small gifts leading up to Christmas day.
- Finding a way to serve in the community, such as a donation to the local food bank.
- Driving around looking at Christmas lights....because we're too lazy to put up our own.
Oh....one more thing that won't be happening around here. Gingerbread houses. Not our forte. It's always a debacle.
What are you doing to simplify your holiday season this year?